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Mar 19  Read: Ecclesiastes 7 Listen: (3:37) Read: Psalms 58-59 Listen: (3:32)

Scripture Focus: Psalm 58.1-2; 10-11

Psalm 59.11-13

Reflection: Do Not Destroy?

By John Tillman

In The Sun Also Rises, Ernest Hemingway described how bankruptcy happens: “Gradually, then suddenly.” Other writers have adapted this idea to falling in love or falling asleep. Both happen “Slowly, then all at once.”

In David’s trilogy of Psalms 57, 58, and 59, which use the tune “Do Not Destroy,” he mixes lament for his sufferings with imprecatory passages against morally bankrupt enemies.

The middle psalm, Psalm 58, is harshest. It asks God to break and rip out his enemies’ fangs. It pictures enemies swept away like Pharoah’s army in a flood and the righteous walking through the wicked’s blood. This is typical language for imprecatory psalms, which do not endorse or command vengeful violence, but instead leave vengeance to God. But a surprise awaits in the final psalm.

In Psalm 59 David asks God not to kill his enemies. Or at least, not too quickly. He asks that they be uprooted and consumed slowly. This gradual punishment is not mercy. David is not concerned for the lives of the wicked but for the lives of those who will witness their long, slow, painful fall.

David wants God’s people to see these enemies fall and fail publicly, on an epic scale, and in slow motion. The tune, “Do Not Destroy” might be more accurately called “Do Not Destroy Too Quickly.”

Leaders go morally bankrupt in the same way Hemingway described financial bankruptcy—gradually, then suddenly. Justice comes against the corrupt in the same way David prayed for—slowly, then all at once.

Our world is not short of leaders like those David prayed about. Do you see those who devise injustice and spread lies? (Ps 58.2-3) Do you see those whose words are harmful swords promoting and promising violence scoffing that no one can hold them accountable? (Ps 59.7) (I hesitate to mention examples like the Epstein files…this is not about just one scandal.)

We can and should pray imprecatory psalms but imprecatory psalms are not angry social media posts. Those “prayers” on the “public street corner” have earthly rewards. (Matthew 6.5-6) Imprecatory psalms turn our justifiable rage, anger, and pain over to God for his vengeance and justice.

Pray that, whether slowly or all at once, the fall of the wicked would be seen in our days. Bring them down, Lord, that the suffering may be encouraged, the wicked may be warned, and the world may remember you are watching.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Morning Psalm

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Springtime by Phyllis Tickle.

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Links for today’s readings:

Mar 18 Read:  Ecclesiastes 6 Listen: (1:44) Read: Psalms 56-57 Listen: (3:11)

Scripture Focus: Psalm 56:8

8 Record my misery;
    list my tears on your scroll—
    are they not in your record?

Reflection: God’s Lachrymatory

By Erin Newton

According to some accounts, ancient Roman mourners would collect their tears in small vials and bury them with their deceased loved ones. These little “tear jars” or lachrymatories were filled with tears, and their evaporation would parallel the end of mourning. As the bottle dried out, so would one’s eyes.

While the validity of such assumptions is questionable, Psalm 56 highlights the value of keeping a record of grief. As a lament and prayer to God in a time of trouble, the psalmist exposes their grief and asks God to take it into account.

There are many psalms that ask God to remove grief or misery. The Lord’s prayer asks that God lead us not into temptation. Paul begged God to remove the thorn in his flesh. Here, the psalmist embraces the fullness of misery. It is as if to say, “Don’t let my tears be wasted.”

Contrary to much of our impulses (or cultural conditioning), the psalmist doesn’t shy away from crying. Crying is a given. Crying might even be desired. And at least, crying won’t be for nothing.

Like the ancient mourners, God is thought to collect the tears of his beloved children and record them in his scroll. Like a divine accountant of pain and sadness, God sees, notes, and validates the psalmist’s tears.

The Bible is full of criers. Genesis 21:17 says, “God heard the boy crying, and the angel of God called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, ‘What is the matter, Hagar? Do not be afraid; God has heard the boy crying as he lies there.’ ” God heard another woman crying, “In her deep anguish Hannah prayed to the Lord, weeping bitterly” (1 Sam 1:10), and granted her desire to have a child. Even the prophets were known for their weeping: “Streams of tears flow from my eyes because my people are destroyed” (Lam 3:48).

Have you ever considered your tears as a sort of spiritual currency? I surely have not. I have been taught (and fully agree) that tears are not only a meaningful expression but also a regulatory experience. Tears are often necessary and can lead to emotional stabilization. Despite the dread of “having to cry it out,” we are reassured here that they are not ignored.

Crying is not a weakness. The Man of Sorrows joins in our misery by relating to our emotions, acknowledging our pain, and ensuring that grief is never wasted.

Divine Hours Prayer: The Request for Presence

Let my cry come before you, O Lord; give me understanding, according to your word.
Let my supplication come before you; deliver me, according to your promise. — Psalm 119.169-170

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Springtime by Phyllis Tickle.

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Links for today’s readings:

Mar 17  Read: Ecclesiastes 5 Listen: (2:50) Read: Psalm 55 Listen: (2:43)

Scripture Focus: Psalm 55.12-14; 17-21

Reflection: Good Discipleship but Wrong Master

By John Tillman

I recently made a comment on a friend’s post that was misinterpreted. He thought I was disagreeing and saying something political instead of theological.

He felt attacked and he counter-attacked. This friend (a pastor I went to seminary with and ministered with) replied with a meme from the Ace Ventura films of Jim Carey emerging from the rectum of a rhinoceros. The implication was that I, and my opinion (that he imagined I said), were comparable to animal feces

There are two lessons here related to Psalm 55.

One is that friends can hurt you worse than enemies. (Ps 55.12) Online insults and attacks from “trolls,” strangers, or non-human spam bots are distressing, but endurable. Attacks from friends are uniquely disheartening.

The second is that partaking means shaping. The wicked in the psalm were shaped by partaking in violence, strife, threats, and lies. (Ps 55.9-11) War entered the heart of the psalmist’s friend. (Ps 55.21)

There are politicians, podcasters, and pastors with “war” in their hearts. Even official government social media accounts use cruel, insulting memes about serious issues of war and death. And some Christians praise or approve it.

We become like what we behold, especially when we praise it. What many Christians behold and praise is not Christlike. Too many Christians (including pastors) are “discipled” by those peddling politics and pseudo-Christianity with memes, insults, fear, and hatred. It’s good discipleship, but the wrong master.

I gently confronted my friend (though I wanted to respond in anger) and he apologized, removing the offensive comment. But this isn’t about me or him or right or left. Whatever theological or political tribe you listen to has vitriolic voices and we are susceptible to becoming like them. We are being attacked by algorithms that are financially motivated to form echo-chambers and sow war into our hearts.

Christians should excel in love, not unkindness. We should excel in respect, not vitriol. Instead of throwing insulting punchlines, we should extend lifelines of engagement and care. We do not have to let go of orthodoxy to be loving, kind, and respectful. We can hold both.

We must be shaped by scripture, not culture, follow Jesus, not political leaders, and embrace truth and truth-tellers, not lies and lie-sellers.

Be prepared for yourself and others to fail. Be prepared to repent and to forgive. And when you are hurt, say with the psalmist, “as for me, I trust in you.” (Ps 55.23)

Divine Hours Prayer: The Request for Presence

Be pleased, O God, to deliver me; O Lord, make haste to help me. — Psalm 70.1

– From The Divine Hours: Prayers for Springtime by Phyllis Tickle.

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